Saturday, May 16, 2009

i am back


hellllooooooooooooooooo everyone..............................


back after a long long long long long long long time. Dear readers, soory for being away for so long. Actually i was in college(hostel) with no internet access. Now i am done with my college. "College"...no.....i would rather call that "4 years gone waste". To be honest, college for me was nothing but a waste of time. Except for a handful of friends out in my hostel i got nothing of my college life.....oh no....yeah i got....i got the my biggest gift of life in college....i found true love there, I mound my soul mate. Yeah love has happened before...or should i say those were infatuations ? .....dont really know, because had they been love, i shouldnt have forgotten them so easily. Now, getting out of this topic, let me share with you a very dark secret. These four years at college has been a torture for me. "Engineering students" used to call be "unlucky". Not because i was the victim, but as a person from science background i dont believe in such unscientific tags. But i had to suffer. I suffered very badly because everytime people(other than very limited number of friends) encountered me they covered their eyes and went past by so that they didnt have to see me. Such was the treatment i faced. I always felt responsible for this situation , however much my friends used to console, that it was not my fault but the backwardness of those people, responsible for the situation. But always it was i who used to suffer. I always wished that my college days rush by. Only in the last 4 months i came across a guy called madhur malhotra or MADDY. He's a life coach and could successfully instill in me the feelings that it was actually not my fault and i be happy. Since then i am really trying to be happy. And honestly i am happy. Happy that i have got some very good friends...sreya, ats, rimps, piu, mads, and my dear mars. I am happy that i have a cute brother. I am happy that i have true love. I am happy that i have a life. I am happy. Thank you Maddy for instilling in me d feelings when i needed it the most. Thanks.. Thank you my friends for being there for me throughout my rough times. Thank you all. I hope in the coming days i can lead my life to the fullest and hope that god blesses me with the power to face challenges that come my way.


I wont bore you people any further today, with all these stupid craps about me. Would come back next time with a topic that will interest you all and this time i'll be back soon.


Thanks and goodbye till then..


yours truly...................

Sunday, March 22, 2009

NREG....my religion

NREG.....pronounced like "enrage".....my short form 4 'no religion'.
In this world of communal harmony/disharmony whatever is going on in other names, I stand out to follow a different religion call Nreg. Born in a hindu family, i am forced to write Hinduism as my religion in innumerable forms that i have to fill up everyday. But honestly speaking i am not hindu a bit, if praying to idols is what hinduism is, if chanting gayatri mantra is what hinduism is, if keeping fasts is what hinduism is. You may not believe me, but I have due respect for all religions equally, though i feel all of them come with their own rights n wrongs(no offence meant).
But i personally follow none or i follow the one callled Nreg. The underlined theory of my religion is that there is a superpower up above who can see us all. But it is not only the superpower whom we must have faith in but in OURSELVES. We must believe in ourselves, have faith in our own potentials than anyone else. We must learn to love ourselves first, because only then can we love others properly. If there exists so many religions with so many contrasting rules (though the main theory is almost same everywhere), there ought to be differences that will allways prove to be a threat to the peace and security of the people. Whereas Nreg is there for people of all religion to follow. It does not humiliate one religion or overemphasise any other. It only tells you that you should believe in your own self and then there cant be anything impossible. I see my freinds praying infront of god/bhagwan/ullah...whatever you may call him/her before exams. I would rather opt for some meditation to improve my concentration, my self belief, study hard to improve my knowledge rather than depend on someone else to request him/her that i have a good exam. Its just a small example that i gave you. I want you to be practical and believe in yourselves rather than someone else.
Some beliefs of nreg for you:
1. There is just one superpower who created the universe (until science proves
something strong enough to negate this fact)
2. Believe in your own potential rather than depending on someone else.
3. Work hard to do better rather than sitting back and asking your god for
miracles.
4. Respect yourself and others irrespective of what the other person thinks of you
or believes in.
5. Respect nature.
6. Dont hate others just because they dont think like you do or do not have the
same faith as yours.
7. Dont force your feelings on others.
8. Help the people in need but not in a way that they become dependent on you,
rather in a way that they learn to help themselves from the next time onwards.
9. Learn to be happy always. Do things that make others happy because that will
earn you immense happiness and a sense of fulfillment.
10. Thank the superpower once a day if possible for what he/she or whatever has
given you in this life.


Thank you all for reading in and if you believe that NREG is worthy enough for you to follow, just let me know. Also if you have any grievences about it please let me know.

Friday, March 6, 2009

CAT 2009 links

Dear fellow aspirants,
all those of you who are sweating all the way for CAT 09, here's my helping hand.
I am a CAT 09 aspirant. I also wrote CAT 08 and bagged 94.68%ile.

Here are some links which you may find useful for your preaprations.

www.pagalguy.com

www.upperpercentile.com

www.vidyacenter.com

www.totalgadha.com

www.tcyonline.com

www.studyfreak.com/studyMaterialDown.php

www.problems-in-cat.blogspot.com/

www.mindinsight.com

www.mbageeks.com

www.cat4mba.com

www.studyplaces.com

www.onestopmba.com

www.mbapursuit.com/studmat.htm

www.managementparadise.com

www.mbadreams.com

These are some sites that may help you in your preparations. If you people need any other help from my side i am ready to help you.


If you have any other queries leave a comment and i'l reply asap
Dear all, this is for the people of Kolkata.
I offer tuitions upto class 10 for CBSE n ICSE board in MATHS and SCIENCE...
also i would like to teach BASIC ELECTRICAL to students of WBUT.
Interested candidates please logon to
http://www.clickindia.com/detail.php?id=736425
for more details.
regards,
Lopamudra

Saturday, February 28, 2009

JOBS 4 u and NGO 4 all

hi friends....
back after so many days... was actually busy with a trip and college internal...... didnt have much access to the internet. Frustrated by the education system here in india, i want to make a change. I want to see to it that future generations dont suffer from the same misery that i do......


well let me inform u about some job offers i have for you..its in Max new york life.... specially for the people of kolkata.... anybody can join but a graduation is preferred.... even housewives... sitting idle doing no work can join... interested people please mail me at lopamudra0303@gmail.com with the title of MYNL to know the details or post comments here....


i want 2 set up an ngo helping small town and poor ones from the villages with education........ anybody with any idea or eager to help may also contact me at lopamudra0303@gmail.com with title of ngo

Sunday, February 15, 2009

INDIA TODAY

Hi!
I am back......but irritated of the INDIA today. I know irritation is not the solution. But tell me how can i stop this.......stop wat u may think......well.....stop the indicency going around. Hope you have read today's paper. What the bajrang Dal and Ram Sene activists are doing is sheer indecency. Is this the free India? In 1947 we got freedom from British rule. But what we have today, is it real freedom? I think it would have been a better idea to be the slaves of British, because at least you had the freedom of expressing emotions(may be not political). Yesterday Bajrang Dal members mistook a brother and sister holding hands as a couple and beat them. Why? Cant siblings hold hands? And then, even if they were not siblings but two people in love, what is the big deal in holding hand? Is that more indecent than what these Moral Police are doing? People may say that we are not America or any other western country where public display of emotions is allowed. I agree that even today India's culture is not so western to accept people kissing on streets and people are arrested for showing indecency. But holding hands? Does a young kid not hold hands of his/her parents? Is that indecent? If holding hands in streets is indecent then i think people who say so should never marry. Their life will become impure then. These people are not allowing citizens of this country to love..... we dont have freedom even to love..... and you say this is a free country? How? Someone please explain this to me. Please convince me how, the actions of these moral police is right. And if you, there, if you think it is wrong, please come up with some ideas as to how to stop this nonsense going on in the society.
Lopamudra.

Saturday, February 14, 2009